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Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Sharp Skills Performing "Strength" Live!

Monday, December 26, 2011

Student of The Game- Matt Reeves Interview

Matt Reeves

 Matt Reeves is an emcee from Staten Island, New York who has been on the grind for a good minute and he is catching fire! He is a blend of underground conscience, street savvy, college education, and urban pop culture all rolled into one. He has been making waves on the Internet with his most recent offering "4 The Love Of Hip Hop", which has been getting a lot of love from the Source Magazine, DJbooth.net, and a host of other major hip hop music outlets. He sat down with us recently to discuss his new album, creative process, advice to new artists, and the importance of handling your business. Matt Reeves is well on his way to being a huge influential force in hip hop. Take note and check out the interview below.

RF: Tell me about Matt Reeves the man, what makes you you?



Matt: This may sound super corny but what makes me me is that I'm not afraid to be me. A lot of rappers aren't comfortable in their own skin so they need the lifestyle of being a rapper to make them feel comfortable. They use the lifestyle and the music to attract all the things they were afraid to pursue as regular joes. As for myself; I embrace fear, insecurities and other raw emotions through my music while I pursue my dreams. I'm not afraid to talk about my shortcomings and I don't put on a show to save face. However it's not all about hard times and woe is me either.



RF: You have a very unique approach to your music. Tell me how your sound came to be what it is?

Matt: As a kid everyone around me from the adults to my older siblings all embraced music with a purpose. So, from Gil Scott Heron to Poor Righteous teachers I was being fed music in a different way. A lot of people think I don't curse in my music because of my spiritual beliefs but it's not that at all. But that actually stems from my mother's challenge to say something meaningful and learn how to express myself without taking a short cut. To be honest, I'm not against people who do, it's just this is where I am creatively.

RF:What motivates you to create the type of music you make?

Matt: The motivation behind the music I make is life itself. I think art should reflect life, not the other way around. Some people may feel like my music is more on the emo side because of the subject matter but if you listen close I never address an issue without offering hope. A lot of time that hope is left up to you the listener to decide how to handle it. One person might hear my song and decide to speak to their neighbor for the first time, somebody else might hear that same song and decide to start a non profit organization. Knowing that I have that type power in my hands I take it very serious and that motivates me to make the music I make and to be responsible with the gift I've been given.

RF: From what I have seen and heard from you, you have a cold business acumen. How does your business side affect your creative side? How do you use the business side to your advantage?

Matt: Sometimes the business side plays more of a role then I'd like it to. This entire industry is all about relationships. Your net worth is determined by your network. As the Internet gives every bitter person with an opinion the opportunity to be a critic, the net also gives anyone with a pulse the opportunity to be famous but on the flip side once you hit that stride it takes off at a much faster pace. So the appearance is that it's easy to "get on" now. But how I use this to my advantage is that I've learned not to get too attached to the music. It's a business and even though these songs are personal when they're created initially, it's still just a product so you can't take it personal when someone doesn't feel you or your song and vice versa you can't let it go to your head when they do feel you and your music because you're just a product. You could be here today and gone tomorrow so you better have some other ideas set in place for that music money because you may not always make money off of music. It's like hooping, what are you gonna do if you tear your ACL or have a career ending injury? Everyone can't be a commentator on ESPN. You have to have another plan, you have to Magic Johnson the game. That's why I admire dudes like E40. Most people see the rapper, I see the real estate mogul and owner of a chain of Fat Burgers. Music is just the platform to get it all started.
Matt Reeves 2010 Album "Get Signed Or Die Tryin"

RF: Tell me about your latest project, For The Love of Hip Hop, and how that came to be?

Matt: People don't know this and I probably shouldn't even tell you this but you're my brother so I'll spill the beans. The bulk of 4 The Love of Hip Hop maybe 7 songs or so was created in less then 2 weeks, the other 5 songs were songs that I had in the stash that were going to be a part of other projects that just didn't pan out the way I planned, so in an attempt to get something out there and keep my name alive I had to go with why I do this music in the first place. Most of that music was written on the train on my way to the studio. I think we did two or three 3 hours sessions and we were done. Plus keep in mind there's a gang of songs that didn't make the cut. I just wanted to do something that spoke volumes about this culture that I love so much. 90% of my good memories have multiple hip hop songs attached to them. My entire character as an artist comes from Chubb Rocks' "Treat Em Right". If you look close at my album cover and you know hip hop, you'll notice it's all native tongue. S/O my man @Street_Evan he's the only one who openly caught that.

RF:What advice would you give to upcoming artists?

Matt: I would tell any artist to first make the music that is true to yourself. You have more in common with your listener then you think. I'd rather fail as Matt Reeves then to succeed as some other dude I don't even recognize. Second, be about your business and be early to meetings.
Say what you mean and mean what you say. Learn the business you want to be a part of, you don't have to be a master of the industry, just have a basic understanding of how things work and lastly take care of your people. If people take the time out of their personal lives to make time to listen to your songs the least you can say is thank you. Besides there's a benefit behind that mindset as well, it's called Pareto's Law or the 80/20 rule. 80% of your new fans will come from 20% of your existing ones so take care of your people!

RF: Where will Matt Reeves be at in 2 years?

Matt: In 2 years I hope to be 2 years into whatever deal I've signed with whatever company chooses to believe in me. Maybe Pharrell's I Am Other, G Note, Rostrum, Deacon, Duck Down, Fools Gold who knows. I also hope that at that point I will have had an extremely successful Indie career. I also hope that very soon my tour schedule allows me to do this music full time. Thanks for the opportunity to talk to the people you could've chose anyone. It didn't have to be me doing this interview. Let them know they can check me out @mattreevesmusic. I'm always on twitter ask the battery on my iPhone. If you don't have Twitter hit me at mattreevesmusic@gmail.com but you really should get a twitter I need the followers lol!

RF: No thank you Matt. We appreciate your time, we know you have a lot going on.
Be sure to check out one of Matt Reeves' latest songs/videos "Glasses", this one of my personal favorites.


Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Honoring My Incredible Grandmother



This past Friday, I received a phone call around 5am. I took a deep breath before I answered knowing that these calls usually don't end well. I got the message that Henrietta Phillips, my 92 year old grandmother, went home to be with the Lord. I remembered talking to her earlier that week and she sounded good (my grandmother was still sharp even in her old age). We talked about music (she hated rap, but loved mine lol), marriage, her students (she was a classical piano teacher), and the book she was working on. My grandmother didn't leave anything on the plate. She was still very active in her church, her business, and family. She could have easily passed for 70 years old. I know 50 year old people who don't get around as well as she did.
So I write this with a bit of disbelief that my beloved "granny" is gone. She leaves such a rich legacy and I am so happy that she gets to be with God now without any hindrance. My grandfather, Harold Phillips, is still here and he is the strongest man I know. He is truly the model of a godly man as he still upholds our family through this difficult transition. I'm pretty sure my grandmother won't be reading this, perhaps this is more so for me, but I want to make sure that I acknowledge her accomplishments. She was an author, singer, song writer, musician, teacher, first lady, mother, sister, aunt, friend, great grandmother, and confidant. Her mind was like a map, she could tell you how to get to any destination within the country without looking at a Thomas Guide. I will greatly miss my granny and I will honor her by being the best that I can be and help make this world a little bit better after I'm gone, like she did.

Monday, December 5, 2011

Hone In On Your Creative Edge



People who have come to uncover their creativity can be some of the most unfocused people on the planet. I can speak from such a point of view because I can be one of them. I have so many ideas that it would be impossible to pursue them all. It has gotten to the point where I have an idea folder in my phone and I just jot down my free flowing ideas and revisit them. I have found (in my limited experience) that it is important to hone in on (or focus on) what I'm most passionate about and give the majority of my energy to that. This allows me to complete my goal and put out something of exceptional quality. Whatever you are pursuing, hone in on one element of it and kill it. Maximize your current endeavor and then move on to the next project. You will have less stress and frustration, and gain satisfaction from finishing the job.

Sunday, December 4, 2011

Are You Sleeping on Your Creativity?


I recently tried to take a nap the other day and felt that still, small, voice say, "you need to get up and work". I instantly shrugged it off, rolled over, and commenced trying to catch some shut eye. The voice again said, "you need to get up and work, you are missing out on creativity". That was enough to get me up and start punching away on my laptop. As I write this, I wonder how many people are sleeping on their creativity. Maybe not literally sleeping, but not doing their part to put the creative energy within them to work. I don't ever want to miss an opportunity to get into my creative zone and produce something that is new, exciting, and perhaps will change some one's life. Every time we let our laziness, fear, ignorance, or other vices keep us from tapping into our creative potential, we do ourselves and the world a terrible disservice. So go create something!

Saturday, December 3, 2011

The Artistry of Marriage



Sometimes I can feel my heart get extremely lonely on this journey called life. Perhaps you too have had the feeling that you are all alone even though you are around several other people. Feelings like this make me so appreciative to have another person who I can share my joys, dreams, fears, insecurities, and ultimate success with. I realize how unbalanced I could become if I didn't have someone to compliment me. Though there are struggles, ups, and downs, nothing can compare to having someone (going in the same direction) to journey with on this side of eternity. I've heard it said that to stay married is a skill, but to become happily married and stay that way is an art. Well, the latter is what I'm after.

Saturday, November 26, 2011

You Don't Know What You Are Made Of Until You Are Tested


It's easy to be a star football player from the comfort of your couch. We know everything that the guy on the field is doing wrong and if he would just do what we command (with our chips and beer in hand), he would win the game. I'm afraid that the game is a lot different when you are actually on the field. I'm sure we would all develop a little more humility once we took a helmet to the rib cage and had our faces shoved into the turf. Then reality sets in, perhaps this wasn't as easy as I thought it was we think to ourselves. Time out! The fact is that we don't know what we are capable of until we are placed into the crucible of life. Testing brings out the real us, comfort does not. See how you react to the worst that life has offer or accept the seemingly beneficial challenges that it presents in order to see what is really on the inside. Once you conquer that situation, then you have bragging rights and new authority, but until you actually live through and pass certain courses in the school of life, don't assume you are ready to be on the field.

Friday, October 21, 2011

For The Joy Set Before Me...


Believer's in Christ eventually come to understand that there are significant "death" points in their life. We either have the choice to undergo these periods of death allowing the resurrection life of Jesus to flow through us, or we can choose to take the easy route and let our human nature continue to live and abort the plan of God in our lives for that moment. Some death points and periods are bigger and have greater magnitude than others. The little "deaths' that we die daily prepare us for our big death that we will face that will give life to many others. The joy set before us that allows us to undergo these deaths is all of the lives that will be touched for the better by our obedience to God.

Saturday, October 15, 2011

Inner Transformation Leads to External Transformation


Many people are often focused on how they can transform their sphere of influence. We want to see positive transformation in our families, on our jobs, in our churches, and in our communities. Positive transformation is progressive in nature, there are building blocks that lead to greater levels. To change a city, family, community, the individual must change first. The very things that you desire to see shifted in your respective spheres of activity must first shift in you. A transformation in you will allow you to see what needs to transform in your surroundings and will give you authority to work on initiating the change, you are working from a place of integrity. So get busy transforming the spehre of responsibility assigned to you by God, but remember that first step starts with you undergoing that tranformation.

Saturday, September 24, 2011

Sharp Skills Comes Out on Top in 2011 Battle of The Beats!!!

Sharp Skills with family, friends, and supporters after the battle


"God did it again", said Sharp Skills to his wife with a big smile on his face after he was announced the winner of the 2011 Battle of the Beats at Cal State Long Beach on September 22nd. There were 14 emcees brave enough to step up to the challenge to lyrically assault one another until there was only one left standing. First round: Sharp got to work quickly on his opponent and didn't waste any time proving his lyrical caliber. After the completion of the first round, all the emcees who were to be eliminated were called up to the stage and Sharp was one of them. "Wait a minute, wait a minute, there has been a mistake", said Corion Lucas, the host of the battle, "Sharp Skills was not eliminated, there was a mix up", he asserted. Sharp took a deep sigh of relief and took his seat with the remaining survivors. Second round: Sharp dismantled his opponent and stated "You don't even know who I am in the Spirit, you not battling your average dude" to the challenger on the other microphone.
Tie breaker round: The judges decided to have Sharp Skills do a tie breaker match with another emcee who had the same score as him, the loser would be eliminated from the competition. Sharp did not do as strong in this round as he did in the one prior, but the judges saw fit to let him proceed to the next round. Third round: Sharp was back to himself and was able overcome his opponent by engaging the crowd. Sharp Skills would move on to the final round to battle Mayhem One. Final round: Mayhem One lets off a tirade of verbal assaults on the cool and collected Sharp Skills. Mayhem One scrunched his face as he used his extensive vocabulary violently to prove he was the champion and should be respected as such. Sharp did not appear to be fazed and started his rhyme with asking God for strength and then said "You are scaring me, you really need some therapy" and he made reference to other psychological disorders Mayhem One appeared to have as the crowd watched in delight. After the final round Corion Lucas announced that the crowd was going to be the judge. "Yall give it up for Mayhem One", said Lucas and the audience gave a strong round of applause. "Yall give it up for Sharp Skills" and the crowd erupted in a frenzy, especially Sharp's Antioch family who came out to support him in intimidating numbers. It was clear who the victor was. "Wait a minute, I'm hearing that the crowd wants another round to prove who the winner is" said Lucas as many in the crowd were holding up two fingers indicating their desire to see a second clash. Mayhem One got more aggressive and begin to release his lyrical prowess with extreme force, even saying Sharp had a misconception of God (Sharp had referenced God and his faith for much of the battle). Sharp told the crowd "Its time to take it home". A side came out of Sharp that many had not seen before in the battle as he marched right up to Mayhem One's face saying "I can show you how to be a man" confidently. It got a little heated when Sharp touched Mayhem One's wrist and Mayhem One said "Don't touch me, don't touch me". Sharp backed up, but continued to go even harder lyrically and when he knew he had finished the job, he turned to the crowd, who by this time were up on there feet encouraging him as he demolished his final opponent. "Our winner for the 2011 Battle of the Beats is Sharp Skills", said the host and the crowd erupted.
According to Sharp Skills, the highlight of the night was seeing his family in there and the fact that he was used to impact Cal State Long Beach for the Kingdom. "I thank God for this victory, I really could not have done it without Him, I mean that" was Sharp's response when asked how he felt about the winning during the post battle interview.

Friday, September 23, 2011

Sharp Skills Lands A Featured Article on "How To Write A Rap Song" In Response Magazine


Sharp Skills, is up to a lot these days. When he isn't performing, recording, or prepping for his upcoming album Anno Rebelio, he is writing featured articles for magazines. Namely, Response, an online and print magazine for Seattle Pacific University. In the insightful article, "How To Write A Rap Song", Sharp conveys his approach to creating his particular brand of art. This is Sharp's first featured article in a national magazine and he hopes it will be the first of many. "I am very thankful and honored for this opportunity and I hope it helps out an aspiring emcee" said Sharp Skills. To read the article, click here.

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Overcoming Insecurity



Insecurity is something that plagues us all from time to time, some more than others. Insecurity, like fear, is something that you may not always be able to alleviate, but it is something that can be managed so that you aren't paralyzed from realizing your greatness. Insecurity shows itself usually in one of two ways, either over confidence or self depreciation. You will usually know if you are in an insecure frame of mind if you find yourself over compensating or if you are always criticizing yourself internally. Insecurity can be dangerous when it causes you to: over extend yourself, try to destroy others who are confident, not go after what you are meant for, and treat yourself like you are worthless. These are all extreme cases, but the realities of many people nonetheless. Insecurity is something that may need to be conquered on a day to day basis depending on how severe and entrenched the condition is. So what are some practical ways to overcome insecurity?
1) Know what your strengths are and operate in them. If you aren't sure what your strengths are, ask a few people that you know will tell you the truth. Be sure to write them down and look at them everyday to remind yourself. Play to these strengths and develop them. Accept assignments and roles that will allow you to use your strengths.
2) Admit your weaknesses. The trick here is not to dwell on the weaknesses, but to be aware of them.
3) Stay in your lane. We can often fall into insecurity if we focus our energy on what someone else does better than us. The key is to appreciate the gifts/strengths of others, but play your game the way you play it, even if someone is better at it than you are (there is always someone better).
4) Realize that there is no one like you. Sure others may have some of the same qualities that you do, but no one has the same unique mixture of gifts, talents, abilities, skills, and experiences that you do.
5) Hang around people that appreciate and affirm you.
6) Sow good words and deeds into the lives of as many people as you can and as often as you can.

These are just a few things that help me on a day to day basis. If you have some other tips, please leave in the comment section.

Sunday, August 21, 2011

Sharp Skills Knocks It Out The Park At The 2011 Merge Summit Showcase!!!


                                              

Sharp Skills handled his business at the 2011 Merge Summit showcase this past Friday, August 19th. Sharp stood confidently as he performed "Strength", a song off his forthcoming album Anno Rebelio, in front of a panel of judges and a packed house of showcase attendees. No band, no DJ, no hype man, it was just Sharp Skills with a microphone and he commanded the stage and gave the crowd something to yell for as he declared that he remains strong despite the various adversities life brings his way. Dressed in all black, with eyes veiled behind dark sunglasses, Sharp showed that he is a force to be reckoned with in the Los Angeles music scene and he can hold his own with little to no musical accompaniment. The judges (industry heads) had nothing but positive feedback as they critiqued his performance. Mali Music, one of the judges said "Very hip hop, very dope" and another judge said "I can tell that you take what you do very serious and that you are not just rapping this, but living it too". A very influential leader whispered to Sharp afterwards, "You are the hottest thing out and we need to get this music out there". With another huge notch under his belt, it is safe to say that Sharp Skills is well on his way to success.

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Unlocking Your Creative Potential




People are designed to create. If you are not creating something (even if that something is boring algorithms), then chances are you are not fulfilled in your life. Some people are more aware of their creative side and some just have freakishly apparent manifestations of creativity that they can produce (music, art, poetry, the usual suspects). But I sincerely believe that even if you are not an "artist" per se, there is still a canvas within your sphere of influence that only your unique set of "paint brushes" can make a masterpiece out of. Perhaps you work in corporate America and crunch numbers all day, your creative genius may allow you to invent a new way of acquiring and/or disseminating that information to/for your stake holders that doesn't bore them/you to death. Maybe you are a stay at home mom and you construct a witty system that allows you to operate your home more efficiently. Whatever space you occupy is a frontier all its own to be creatively conquered. Don't place limits on your potential, no matter what role you have in life. Always look for ways to improve, refine, and innovate. Use some of that good old brain power to imagine possibilities rather than confinements. Those who hone their creative potential will be the ones who influence culture the most in the not so distant future.

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

The Dark Side of Being Driven



Being driven is widely viewed in society as something positive and to be admired, I agree, but as someone who is very driven himself, I also see the potential harm in this quality if not managed properly. Driven individuals, such as myself, can have the tendency to charge toward a goal no matter the cost even if it causes harm to both themselves and those close to them. If you are very driven/ambitious, you must work hard to couple this trait with patience and accept the advice of others (even when it doesn't feel good). Ask those closest to you if you are making room for them and allowing them to be a part of your plans. Sometimes you may need to put the brakes on for a season to allow others to catch up or at least for them to trail closely behind. One thing you don't want is to become successful, reaching all of your goals and see the shattered lives of those who love you left behind in the dust. It is better to incorporate others, especially those that you love, and share the rich experiences of life and accomplishment. One driven personality to another.

Saturday, August 13, 2011

Getting To The Greatness That Lies Within You



Many of us take ourselves for granted. We underestimate and undervalue our potential largely because of what people, circumstances, and our environments have limited us to. "The purposes of a man's heart are deep waters, but a man of understanding draws them out" (Proverbs 20:5). What lies within us is as deep as the oceans, those of us who apply ourselves to discovering who we are and what we are capable of will see how amazing we are. It takes discipline, diligence, and determination to realize your greatness because so much of the world's system is dedicated to confining it, making you manageable and neutralizing the impact God desires for you to have. So you have to makeup in your mind that you will stay the course of uncovering the treasures that are inside and helping others find the treasures within them, no matter the cost. Life is a waste if you don't become all that you are meant to be!!!

Friday, July 29, 2011

Can You Stick With It? If Not, Don't Start It!


I hear a lot of people talk about how they want to do great things. That is something to admire because many people are content just being average and doing average things. It takes guts to talk about your desire to do great things, it takes even more guts to actually attempt to accomplish something great. Yet, the disconnect occurs when difficulty ensues as a result of going after something of value. Many of those who once talked about doing great things give up there pursuit altogether when obstacles come about. They bury their dreams when multiple obstacles occur. So this leads me to believe that  people aren't as passionate about doing something great as they led on or they went after the wrong thing. That might sound harsh, but the reality is is that even if hell itself rises against you, it wont be able to hold you back from something you are dead set on accomplishing. If you don't have that type of motivation for what you are going after, then what you are pursuing isn't worth it. You are better off finding something that ignites a consistent flame within you and charge after that.

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Sharp Skills to Perform on Same Stage as Mali Music, Kierra Sheard, Trinitee 5:7, El DeBarge, and More!!!

The R.E.B.E.L. Firm Music Division is proud to announce that our very own, Sharp Skills, will be performing at the 2011 Gospel Fest in downtown Long Beach. The Long Beach Gospel Fest is slotted to pack in an estimated 10,000-15,000 people in beautiful Long Beach, California. Sharp Skills will be one of the artists to grace the stage. Sharp brings an infectious energy to his audience while articulating his rap lyrics in a manner where the listeners can both enjoy the music and understand what he is saying. The 26 year old emcee will be performing with a live band for a short but memorable set around 3:30 pm on July 10th. This concert will mark a major milestone for Sharp since relocating back to California due to the fact that he will be sharing the same stage as Mali Music (who was featured on the BET Awards Next Up segment), Kierra Sheard, Trinitee 5:7, and a host of other heavy hitters. Sharp Skills will be performing one of the songs from his new album "Anno Rebelio" called "How Bout It". He will also have a booth where he will be handing out free promotional Cd's of Anno Rebelio. This is an event that you do not want to miss.

Friday, July 1, 2011

Staying Passionate About Your Purpose in the Midst of Adversity


Fulfilling your purpose is no easy feat. In fact, most people don't, the same way the majority of people only tap into only about 10% of their brain power. When you choose to accomplish your purpose, you are signing up to go against the grain of society. Many systems are built on people being predictable and living an ordinary and purposeless life. Not only does one have to fight to remain motivated in spite of this fact, but also be able to navigate around our own tendency to just settle, especially if we hit some bumps in the road. I am a firm believer that if you realize what your true purpose is, you will weather the storms of adversity and persist right through them until you get to the envisioned end. Sometimes you have to take it one day at a time when you are not seeing the desired results. You have to be able to recognize and celebrate small victories and those will eventually turn into big ones.

Monday, June 27, 2011

Am I Ready For The Big Time?


This past weekend, some of my buddies and I decided to leave our humble abode in Long Beach and venture off to Hollywood to hang out. This was not a regular weekend in Hollywood, the BET Music Awards was happening simultaneously. As we passed by several scantly clad women and expensive cars, I begin to ask myself "Do you think you are ready for all of this?". Am I ready to be a light in this environment teeming with temptation around every corner. I am a firm believer that I am supposed to be used by God in this realm, but sometimes I wonder if I can be as strong in theses dark environments as I am when surrounded by other believer's in our little Christian bubbles. Well, God knows if I'm ready or not. What's crazy is I feel like I'm closer than I've ever been to "blowing up". Seriously, all it would take is the right connect, to be seen by the right person/people and my life would be dramatically altered forever. It's both a scary and an exciting thought. I guess we'll just see what happens.

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Sharp Skills Album/News Updates!

Sharp Skills at Hastings Productions

What's up R.E.B.E.L.'s. I wanted to give you guys a quick update on how my new album Anno Rebelio is progressing. For about the past month I have been hard at work recording songs at Hastings Productions in Los Angeles. What was even harder work was finding the right studio to record this project at (thank God the search is over). So far, I have recorded four songs, so I'm about 1/3 of the way finished. Click here to see footage. I have also locked down an awesome engineer to mix and master the project, his name is Mike Verse Mills, he is also a talented emcee as well. This past weekend, I had a very successful album photo shoot with the very talented R. See. So there's quite a bit of positive momentum going. My team and I actually decided to push the album back to next year due to some unforeseen circumstances. I want to put out the best music of my career and also be in the right emotional state when I release it too, it's only fair to my listeners. There will soon be some album leaks available, so be sure to check out my facebook page as well as twitter for updates. I also have a huge show coming up on July 10th that I'm super juiced about called Long Beach Gospel Fest. I will be sharing the stage with names such as Mali Music and Kierra Sheard, performing in downtown Long Beach with the streets blocked off! Come see me if your around. Lastly, I need your help to get the word out about my music.If your new to my music, check it out on iTunes first. If you want to know how you can help, hit me up on facebook. Thanks for checking out this blog post and stay tuned. More to come!

Monday, May 23, 2011

How To Destroy Your Haters in 30 Days or Less


I knew that title would get you (in English man accent)! This blog post is not about how to rid the earth of your enemies. I want to discuss the dysfunction that we have found ourselves in as it relates to this subject. Over this past week I have read numerous status updates via facebook, twitter, etc. regarding haters and the offended party's response to them. Have you ever wondered why people hate on one another in the first place? First, a definition is in order. To hate is to dislike intensely or passionately, or to feel extreme hostility towards. People who feel they are being "hated on" are in essence saying that they are intensely disliked and feel extreme hostility emanating from a person/group of people toward them. Newsflash---it is not a good thing to be on the receiving end of this interaction. What does hate of this sort stem from? More than likely, though debatable, it comes from the person (the hater) feeling dissatisfied with their current condition, yet not having the means, ability,courage, etc. to change their situation and thus improve upon it. Therefore, when they see another person (usually of similar origins) attempting to change their situation and showing signs of measurable progress, jealousy/envy is aroused in the person who lacks this power. As I have said before, this is a very natural occurrence and one that should be discounted as such. The dysfunction that I witness on a day to day basis are those who relish in the bliss (paradoxical) of being disliked intensely. It's really quite mad. This condition is generally seen in those who lack a healthy knowledge of self identity and awareness, thus they draw energy from others, even though it is negative (it is energy nonetheless to draw upon). We have fallen into a trap in this current population, to believe that it is a glorious feat to be the subject of an other's hostility due to our own progress. The correct mind to have as it relates to our "haters" is to seek ways to empower them so that they too may progress (should they elect to receive your assistance). Let's be honest, we have all been a "hater" at one point or another.

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Sharp Skills Discusses Vision

We all Have dreams and things that we see ourselves doing in the future. Much of this is from God. Yet it can be frustrating while undergoing the process that will allow us to get to the destination we envision. I experience the same feelings and I offer insight in this new vlog on how to overcome impatience during the waiting period.


Thursday, April 21, 2011

Killing the Critical Spirit


If you would be real with yourself, you've had a critical spirit (or attitude) before. I've had it and have recently dealt with it and hate it! A critical attitude is the essence of what we like to call "a hater". It's not cool to be a hater, nor does it feel good when we see that we are operating from this mindset. It usually comes when we see someone doing their thing, in front of  people and being praised for it. We start thinking, I can do that better or we find every reason why their presentation sucks because we either lack the courage or ability to do it too. If you are like me, you hate being critical. It drains precious energy, creativity, relationships, opportunities, and dishonors God. So how do you deal with a critical spirit? You have to find your realm of influence and begin to work within it. A lot of the bad attitude comes from us having things/ideas we want to present, but feeling like we don't have permission to do so with a certain group of people. All of us have a realm of influence that we are made to reach and it can be frustrating when your influence isn't being utilized. If you find the place/people you are supposed to reach and step out and actually do it, then you won't deal with being critical as much. If you are pursuing your vision, then you won't have as hard of time supporting others in theirs because your mind will be too occupied with what you got going on! So take some time to find your realm of influence (or begin to operate in it once again if you already know what it is). Once you do, your face will brighten and your outlook on what others are doing won't be so negative.

Monday, April 18, 2011

Dying to Self


I have very recently entered into a phase of "life" where I am witnessing my own death. What I'm referring to is the death of my selfish will, mindset, and way of doing things. Dying is not a fun process but it is mandatory if you truly wish to be great. I have become acquainted with several leaders that are around the same age as me who are either just as sharp (no pun intended) or sharper then me.I'm not used to that. I am accustomed to being the HPIC (Head Person In Charge), but I've pretty much been assigned to the back seat. At first I was a little distraught over this, but I just came to realize how good this is for me. Also, being around other highly capable leaders will make me a better one. So I have been learning to shut my mouth and listen to others more, even humble myself to receive instruction from those the same age as me or younger (tough pill to swallow). God is allowing me to experience what others have experienced with me, at my job I am managing people twice my age (I know that's a bummer). Needless to say, I am becoming better through this dying process and will be ready to go hard after my flesh (worldly nature) is completely pulverized.

Monday, April 4, 2011

Keep Building...


Whenever you are building something that is God inspired, you should expect opposition to come. Pastor Wayne Chaney said, "All great leaders have to learn how to function well through adversity". Trouble comes with the territory when you are about Kingdom Business. Even those that are not about Kingdom Business experience their share of problems when they are constructing something great to behold. One of the most difficult obstacles to get over is our natural emotions. We must learn to process our natural emotions from a supernatural perspective less we give in to a downward spiral of depression and a defeated attitude. We must stay at the wall that we have been positioned on at all cost. Great leaders recognize that they are  part of something bigger than themselves and other people depend on their strength. This is not to say that leaders are not allowed to grieve, but as Pastor Wayne Chaney said "great leaders cry while continuing to move at the same time". Pain, change, opposition, highs, lows, and everything in between will hit us in this life, but if we are able to keep building what we were destined to, then we will realize true greatness.

Thursday, March 31, 2011

Stay Flexible (The Art of Adaption)




The more rigid you become, the less options you have. In this day and age of change, those that are able to stay fluid will be the ones who are successful in the future. It is important to recognize that you can be flexible without sacrificing your values and beliefs. Flexibility has to do with being able to switch up methods and  adapt to external dynamics. The only thing constant is change, so one will do well to embrace it rather than resist. I used to hate change (and to some degree I still do), but I realize that it is a current of life that I have no control over, plus I recognize the good that it produces. Change keeps you from becoming complacent and allows opportunities for growth. The less you resist change, the more possibilities you will be able to see, which will put you ahead of the curve as it relates to progress.

Monday, March 21, 2011

Embracing the Process of Maturity



Maturity is definitely a process that one has to decide to allow. Another way to say this is a person must decide to grow up and embrace whatever it takes for this to happen. Many people abort the process of maturity because it is painful and unfamiliar. It is easier to stay complacent at one's current level of living than to realize their full potential. We get caged in by fear and it paralyzes us. It is a scary thing to leave the cacoon that we've been in so long. We've gotten cozy in our immaturity and don't want to risk the little that we have for the greater purposes that are found outside of it. The first sign of maturity is embracing the process of becoming mature. Recognizing that you are on a path that you can't turn back from because you are being compelled by something greater is a decisive moment in a person's life. No matter what comes your way you are willing to endure because you have an innate sense that there are others depending on you to complete the process.

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Staying Consistent When Progress Is Not Evident

Don't ever underestimate the amount of progress you are making when results are not physically displayed. We often want to give up when we don't reach our desired outcome in an hour. The plight of this generation is the belief that success should be seen overnight. It is more important to maintain consistent discipline when the bells, whistles, and fireworks of excitement and initial momentum wear off. For one, your character is being developed and two your sight will increase. Sight in the sense that I'm speaking on refers to long term vision. A great person can stay true to a long term vision and actually accomplish it whereas the average person can barely accomplish a short term vision. If you are able to remain consistent through the peaks, valleys, and plateus, you will be more fulfilled than many of your counterparts in the long run.A great tree does not sprout in a day. Progess is not evident for many days, but under the soil (what is unseen), the roots are growing and becoming fixed in the ground. The unseen time in our lives is what gives us a solid foundation to build on that enables us to stand in greatness throughout the rest of our lives when our time comes.

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Staying Motivated In Spite of BOOBOO (Big Obstacles, Opposition, and Being Overlooked Often)


The road of greatness is not an easy one to travel. While in route, you will come across your fair share of BOOBOO (Big Obstacles, Opposition, and Being Overlooked Often). Your motivation is key to overcoming BOOBOO and not letting it hold you back from being who you are meant to be. In my own life, I have seen that the elements that have kept me motivated are my relationship with God, vision, my wife, and past accomplishments. My relationship with God keeps me on track and gives the strength to deal with BOOBOO correctly.
Man, there is nothing like having a day where BOOBOO is all over the place and then getting into the presence of Almighty Christ and letting him just wash every fear away. My relationship with God definitely gives me to strength and peace of mind to face BOOBOO.
The vision that I have gives me something to work towards. It gives me a sense of purpose and a road map for my destination. Sometimes my vision is long term and other times it is short term. But the important thing is to keep your vision in front of you. If you don't your vision will be covered by BOOBOO and will sap your motivation quickly. God empowers us through our relationship with Him to have motivation to accomplish the vision he has set before us. Yet it is your responsibility to stay attached to that vision until it is accomplished.
My wife is a huge motivator. For one, I am the provider in my home and if I don't stay motivated the ship will sink or the ship will have a large gaping hole that needs to be patched up all the time. Secondly, my wife's affirmation and belief in what I'm doing keeps me highly motivated. You may not be married, but you more than likely have someone in your life that motivates you to succeed. Cherish these people!
Lastly, my past accomplishments motivate me. I'm not saying that one should dwell on past accomplishments, but one should remember how far he/she has come. Looking at certain accomplishments of my past remind me that I have done great things and can repeat or even exceed them.

So, in order to stay motivated in spite of BOOBOO, you need to make sure to have a strong relationship with God, have a vision and keep it in front of you, find someone who motivates you, and remember past accomplishments.

Monday, March 7, 2011

The F.R.E.S.H. Mind of Branden Nelson (Spotlight on Greatness Interviews #1)



Branden Nelson, the creative visionary and founder of the exciting new clothing brand F.R.E.S.H. Apparel took a little time to discuss his vision and how F.R.E.S.H. has become what it is today. We are elated to have him as our first guest on the Spotlight on Greatness Interviews. Let's get right into it.




Branden,how did you get into fashion design and how long have you been doing it?

I have always been an admirer of clothing and placing things together uniquely to look good. However I was never a fashion major, I was actually a Business major; attaining a Bachelors degree in Marketing and a Master's degree in Human Resources Management. The acronym for F.R.E.S.H. was given to me through revelation from God during a bible study that I was involved in while working in youth ministry at Antioch Church of Long Beach. At that time God gave me all of these unique characteristics that one must have in order to have a unique relationship with him and at that point I was puzzled as to what the acronym would be used for. However after praying and seeking God for direction I was told that it would be a clothing line. As I stated before I had never studied fashion before and didn't have the slightest clue as to where to begin in that industry. But I came to realize that when God is orchestrating everything, it all works out accordingly. He gave me the direction that I would start in (unique tees, sweaters and tops) but told me to remain flexible as more would become of this brand with time. So a year and some change later I have seen His words come to pass as we are maturing into a diverse clothing line not only providing our customers with classy and sophisticated spirit filled tees but are now manufacturing high end items such as jackets, dresses, red carpet couture pieces and vests. Being that my time in business and the amount of time that I have been working in fashion are both a little over one year amazes me each time I think of it. God has been good to us and has provided me with an excellent team who are able to bring His vision to fruition.

Those are some major accomplishments. I can see that there are a lot of people who support, which is critical to success. Who are some of your greatest influences in the industry?

Some of my greatest influences in the industry would have to be Chanel and Mychael Knight. Chanel because the brand has built it's foundation on not conforming to the industries standards of what beauty is and how it should look. The brand dares to be different and always pushes the envelope in regards to the styles that it introduces. I am influenced by Michael Knight because for one he is an African American man who is opening many doors for other men of color who aspire to follow in his footsteps. He is a brilliant creative mind and is able to showcase the beauty of African American people through his designs. I love how his work is reflective of him yet can be worn by many. Both brands have characteristics that I want present in my brand (non-conformity and versatility). Those are some excellent influences.

My wife loves Chanel and hopefully one day I can afford to get her something, haha.Moving on (hopefully she doesn't read this) What motivates you man and what one piece is your favorite?

Seeing people wearing my clothes and taking pride in their heart because of what the brand embodies motivates me to continue to provide my customers with even more! My favorite piece that I have worked on so far would have to be the "When I Became a Man" t-shirt. The shirt is very near and dear to my heart because it quotes a scripture (1 Corinthians 13:11) that talks about how we are to mature as believers and put away the childish things of our past in order to fully walk our paths of destiny. The shirt is designed with elementary school/pre-school writing in the beginning of the scripture; however as the scripture talks of maturity, you too see the maturity in the font that is being used. By far one of my favorites and a Classic FRESH Apparel item.


"When I Became A Man" Mens Tee
By F.R.E.S.H. Apparel

That is dope man. The font progression is a very clever idea. You seem like a have a very purpose driven life and that is reflected in your brand. With that said,what mark do you want leave on the world with your clothing line? What is your desired legacy?

As I embark on this journey, I pray to leave the world with a Quest for FRESH! That is to create a hunger and thirst for the presence of God and to have a true authentic relationship with Him. My prayer is to leave a legacy that includes raising soldiers that will always exemplify the characteristics of God and live uncompromisingly for Him in the world. Once these individuals get the FRESH fashion tip that is given by God, it is hoped that they will share it with the world. Hence taking each individual on the journey from Revelation to Transition to Commission.

You sound like a military general. We need more of that, you know, people who provide direction and sow into the lives of other people. I love that that is what you are committed to and are using your brand as a vehicle to influence the masses in that way. I can tell that you are very passionate about God and the vision he has given you. What life experience was of the most significance that caused you to pursue your passion?

I would have to say the moment when I chose to fully live for God and no longer be lukewarm in my walk with Him. Once I completely devoted my life to Christ I was propelled onto the path towards my destiny. Along the way I was provided with different tools that I needed in order to bring this vision to fruition (biblical foundations, a strong and consistent prayer life, Godly counsel, the experience of brokenness and few lessons in humility). Now that I have God as the number one in my life I can't help but be passionate about taking care of His business. Hence the characteristics described in the FRESH acronym can be summed up as "The Steps to Kingdom Building."

At the end of the day, God's business is all that matters. It is good to see another young cat that is grounded and has a good head on his shoulders.Tell the people how they can connect with you, buy F.R.E.S.H.merchandise, and any upcoming events that you may have?

I can be reached via email: branden@iamfreshonline.com, the FRESH website (iamfreshonline.com), Twitter:twitter.com/iamfreshonline, Facebook:I Am Fresh Christian Couture. FRESH Apparel can be purchased online at iamfreshonline.com. Our exectuive team is currently working on in-store placement deals, so please stay tuned for FRESH in a store near you!
-The FRESH Connection-Business networking event with live entertainment, appetizers, fashion! Saturday, March 12, 2011 at 6:30p.m. at Cafe M (1535 Gundry Ave, Long Beach, CA)
-Rags 2 Rhythms Annual Fashion Show and Merchant Marketplace- Thursday, May 5, 2011 at 7:00p.m. (Cal State Long Beach Student Center)
-FRESHellence Scholarship Award applications will be available in two weeks for graduating seniors who attend Antioch Church of Long Beach and for graduating seniors from Edison High School in Stockton, CA. Applications will be downloadable on the FRESH website or can be picked up from with Antioch Church of Long Beach or the Edison High School Counseling Center.
-Fashion Show hosted by the Edwin Hawkins Music Conference- Riviera Hotel, Las Vegas, Friday, July 1st! Show time TBA
Please e-mail us at Branden@iamfreshonline.com if you should have any questions or concerns!


Thanks Branden. You are definitely on the road of greatness. Keep doing your thing man. Any closing words.

FRESH is for everyone. There is no specific size, look or color that makes you FRESH. You are FRESH because of your relationship and commitment to live for God. Remember we are FRESH not because of the tag, but because of the Maker!

Thursday, March 3, 2011

For Those With a Passion for Greatness





The pursuit for greatness is a very defining characteristic of my generation. Whether greatness is owning your own business, becoming famous, generating vast sums of wealth, coming up with medical advancements, creating social networking platforms, having 10,000+ followers on twitter, however one defines it, we are pursuing it. One thing that I have come to understand is that all great people become so because of great sacrifice. Their greatness stems from how many other people they make great in the process. If you want to be a great person you must authentically pour into the lives of other people. The abscence of this factor will never translate into greatness no matter how influential, cool, or charismatic someone is. The principle behind this thought is the Law of Reproduction (21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership, John C. Maxwell). We must reproduce what we are in other people and this takes the giving of ones self and laying it down for their good.

NBA All Star Weekend 2011 Video (Courtesy of Urban Life Pictures)



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Saturday, February 26, 2011

Living A Life of Maximum Impact


There is a new concept that has been forming in my mind as of late. It is this, what would my life look like if it was smack dab in the middle of my purpose 24/7,365 days of the year. I think about what it would look like if every move that I made was in line with God's perfect will. Think of how powerful a person would be if he/she operated in this reality. I sincerely believe that most people only realize a small percentage of their purpose, just like most folks utilize only 10% of their brain. I'm looking forward to seeing the new movie "Limitless", whcih is about the gentleman who actually taps into 100% of his full brain power. Anyway, I'm getting off subject. The main point I'm trying to drive home is that I desire for my life to have maximum impact. I don't want to look back and realized that I only operated at 50-75% of effectiveness. I want to be so keen on how God is moving that it will pour into every area of my life. I will have maximum impact as a husband, son, brother, friend, minister, business man, musician, employee, and any other role that I find myself in. I desire to be that well polished arrow that is aimed in the correct direction, released at the precise moment, and hits its target dead center. I encourage you to develop this mindset as well.

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Cultivating A MVP Type of Mindset

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Most people want to become great, but few are willing to go through the rigors of what it actually takes to do so. It takes consistent dedication and refinement of ones self in order to be one in a million. Make up in your mind that you are on a quest to reach your full potential and let no obstacle deter you from that. We only have one life on this side of eternity and every moment counts, every moment. Think of where you are with sober judgement and destroy perceptions on where you "think" you are, live in reality.

Friday, February 18, 2011

Living At A High Level And Maintaining It

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Have you ever experienced a time in your life where you had a series of great events take place? Perhaps these events put you on a pedestal in the minds of those around you who witnessed them, but then time set in and all of those great events were memories and you looked up and you had nothing to show for it,except the glory of your not so distant pass. I believe that many people that are wired for greatness experience this. They have spurts and glimpses of greatness but they cannot maintain it for extended periods of time for one reason or another. So I started thinking, how does one live at a high level and maintain that position. I've experienced the side of spurts and glimpses of the high level life, now I am ready to transition into the consistent high life. The high level can be defined as operating at your fullest and greatest capacity. This high level of life will differ from person to person, but it is relative. Some key things that I have noticed from those who live at a high level and maintain it is (these are in no particular order):
1) They don't live off past accomplishments and great moments, they continue to move on to the next thing or improve what they already have.
2)They are highly disciplined and focused.
3)They are careful about who they allow into their inner circle. They only keep key people around them that help them become better and help keep them grounded.
4)They pour into other people, they do not hoard their successes, but share them with the village.
5)They have a strong prayer life and a strong relationship with God.
6)They remain teachable and receive continued instruction well.
7)They are very careful about what they watch, read, and entertain their thoughts with.
8)They recognize new opportunities and pursue them.
9)They live a moral lifestyle and are extremely faithful to their spouse (if they are married).
10)Their eyes are not fixed on themselves,but on God and others.

Monday, February 14, 2011

Happy Valentines Day to a Very Special Woman: Menzelle Jacobs




I've heard it said that beside every great man is a great woman. Well, I must be on my way to greatness because I have truly been blessed with an exceptional woman.I'm normally not the one who falls into the commercial traditions of Valentine's day, but this does give me an even greater excuse to publicly shower my queen with obnoxious love. Where to start? For one, Menzelle Jacobs, my loving wife of two years, is the epitome of a Proverbs 31 woman. She :loves God with her whole being, loves her family with an unparalleled intensity, wears multiple hats well, works hard, is dedicated, innovative, creative, is a gifted poet, committed to excellence,an academic scholar,serves her community, and her church. She is truly a role model for other young women on how to be a successful wife and woman. This husband is madly in love with her and it is no chore to fulfill my marriage vows. So to this great woman I say, Happy Valentines Day, you make any day a Happy Valentine's day for me.

Friday, February 11, 2011

Thursday, February 3, 2011

God Relationships Vs. Good Relationships

Eagles in Flight Pictures, Images and Photos


I'm realizing that I must be careful who I hang around these days. The more God reveals his purposes for my life and the more I step into that reality, the more people are drawn to me. With that said, everyone who comes around is not good for me (nor I for them). One of the hardest things to learn (especially if you are a follower of Christ) is to limit your dealings with people who want to be your friend that are not called such. Most everyone likes to be liked (accept of course Shrek and the Grinch) and its hard to turn away people who admire you and enjoy your company. But allowing relationships that are not God appointed (though they may be good people) will drain you and put weights on you as you pursue your purpose. It is an interesting dynamic to consider that even though you may have the same spiritual DNA as another person, you may not share commonalities in purpose.I'm personally getting tired of relationships that leave me confused or distraught on where I stand with people that I haven't even had a disagreement with. Issues like this are a good indicator that show this isn't a God ordained connection. You'll know the people you are joined with because there will be an ease to how you relate and even your disagreements will bring you closer.

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Sharp Skills' Interview on Yadah Da King Radio!!!




If you missed Sharp Skills' interview on Yadah Da King Radio last week, don't trip, we got you! Hear everything at http://yadahdaking.com/site/sharp-skills

Monday, January 31, 2011

Pace Your Whirlwind

I have a whirlwind of an attitude. The reason I say this is because I am super driven and usually when I set my will on something it is as good as done (that is unless the big man upstairs shuts me down). But my issue is that sometimes I am so driven that I leave the trail blazed behind me and people that walk with me get left in the process. I'm putting all my business out there to help those that are like me. Driven people have to learn how to pace themselves and slow down. Learn to enjoy the people that are on the journey with you and don't get angry when they don't move as quickly as you do. This is easier said than done, but it is crucial if you want to maintain meaningful and long term relationships. Learn to channel your whirlwind (because that is who you are) in the right direction and pace yourself. You will accomplish everything that you are supposed to in due time and you'll find that the accomplishments will be richer when you are able to share them with other people. Cheers!

Thursday, January 27, 2011

What is Your Passion?!!!

Passion Pictures, Images and Photos

What do you spend countless hours on? What really fires you up on the inside? The answers to these questions are good indicators that will lead to what your passion is. Everyone has a passion (even if the passion is to be as passionless as possible). God has placed desires in our hearts that go beyond our surface level wants. Many times, our passion(s) catches us by surprise and we didn't even realize that we had it/them until we face some sort of life changing circumstance. Your level of passion will determine how successful you are in accomplishing your life assignment. Spend some time today and think about what really motivates you and really search yourself. Ask friends and family if you are still unsure(One thing to note, passions can and will change depending on the season of life that you are in).

Friday, January 21, 2011

Running My Own Race

Running man Pictures, Images and Photos



I'm at a point in life now where I am realizing that no ones lane in life is the same.The time we spend trying to either be like someone else, having another person'e life, or thinking we are something we are not is just foolish and a waste of time (we waste time finding the beauty and the good in our own life). I'm starting to understand more of who I am in God (by His grace of course)and because of this I am able to be content with the lane that he designed for me. Don't get me wrong, there are some people whose lanes look really cool and that I admire. Yet at the same time I understand that that is their lane and I have my own.Instead of focusing so much on how the next man is running, I need to concentrate on my own path and make sure I finish the race God designed for me.Good stuff huh?!

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Creativity in the Morning

Sunrise Pictures, Images and Photos

I get a lot of my most creative thoughts at very odd times, either extremely early in the morning or very late at night. There have been many times when I have not acted upon these thoughts, I merely let them pass through my mind and then I would roll over and go back to sleep. I am starting to realize that these moments of intense inspiration are precious and should be treated as such. I have to push past my laziness/ or even justified sleep time in order to get these special invisible gems. Another thing that I am seeing is that in the early morning I am fresh and able to process creative ideas more readily as oppose to when I'm in the middle of my work day. So take advantage of the early morning, for it is then that you may find your billion dollar idea!